Happy Monday everyone! I hope your weekend was all you needed it to be!!! Over the weekend I allowed myself to be vulnerable, less controlling, and to receive the love that my husband freely gave. I was able to look at him and understand that I have a good man. He is always looking out for me and has my best interest at heart. He is patient with me. He talks to me. We grow together. His effort is STRONG! He jokes with me and lets me have my way A LOT. When we went to the movies this weekend to see Equalizer 2, a must see, I kept looking at him instead of the movie. I literally felt butterflies, love, happy, grateful and joy knowing that he is my man!
You see, I’m the kind of person who looks at the outcome instead of the effort. This weekend helped me realize that some people put forth lots of effort to make others happy, however, it goes unnoticed because we are always focusing on the result or the prize. We take the small things for granted, like the loving words, the positive words, the excitement in their voice, or simply the person because they didn’t meet our expectations. I’ve been with my husband for 18 years and I’m learning how to love him better, how to acknowledge his efforts, how to appreciate him and how to keep him! I know I have my flaws, but if I wasn’t me, I don’t think he would truly be happy! He loves this inconsistent, moody, gifted, vocal, growing woman!
Have you had a light bulb moment lately? If so, what was it about???